tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474926540551445609.post1204126487408851359..comments2023-08-01T10:58:15.390-05:00Comments on Natural Beautism and Flappings in Life: Divorce SucksMelissa Hopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08530361123704457237noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474926540551445609.post-66728753122982735462011-11-23T14:35:09.199-06:002011-11-23T14:35:09.199-06:00I myself have experienced divorce but I had no chi...I myself have experienced divorce but I had no children with my wife I really hated that it came to that I tried again and again and again to keep the marriage together but I was just not meant to be I never wanted a divorce no matter how bad things got I did let go when she threatened with a act of infidelity so that I would go through with it I do however have a child with someone I was not married to and it's a struggle with that person as well I finally went to a lawyer to be able to get to see my son cause she had demands that I just shouldn't have to meet and I puts so much on him i know and I really hate it and at the same time I am getting my life together and I now go by the papers the court has ordered but I am fine with that and I believe the way it's setup is fair but at the same time my heart goes out to my son as he is sent from on environment to the other at his mothers he is with his mom and a older sister two older brothers and a younger sister with me it's just me and him and whatever it is that we like to do quite a change for a child I think with that he has behavior problems and tends to be defiant when he goes back to his mother's I really have very little problems with him but they come back to me when she is displeased with his behaviorG3ARHE4Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13594782885373019922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474926540551445609.post-86977326181687172702011-11-18T12:21:56.471-06:002011-11-18T12:21:56.471-06:00A lot of things just are not fair at all. I can se...A lot of things just are not fair at all. I can see child support as a need but I can also see it being useless. I myself really cant afford it cuz of all the money I spend in gas to get my kids..We are talking around $600 a month. Its not fair to your husbands children at all and I am so sorry he has to deal with that. I know how that goes. I have been through the same ordeal. I finally took his butt to court and got it taken care of. Just have faith..That is the only thing I count on when it comes to my kids.Melissa Hopperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08530361123704457237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474926540551445609.post-66971147656828049782011-11-17T18:01:36.508-06:002011-11-17T18:01:36.508-06:00It is incredibly sad to think about how many kids ...It is incredibly sad to think about how many kids are stuck in the middle of feuding parents. Your blog has inspired me to continue to encourage a good relationship between my ex-husband and myself so that my daughter is never caught in the middle. What's sad is that I offer to take me daughter to visit her dad, I offer to let him have her for any holiday or birthday, but he has never taken advantage of those opportunities. Then my current husband hasn't been allowed to see his two daughters in over three years because of the lies of his ex-wife. When it comes to child support, we pay $500 a month for his two and receive 000.00 for my daughter. How is that fair? How is that fair for anyone involved? The system is incredibly warped and as you said, most parents are too selfish to stop and consider that their children need both parents. They need stability and love. <br />We will keep you and your family in prayer cousin. Much love from Oklahoma.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com